Over the past couple of days I've been thinking about my past relationships and all of the sacrifices that were made by myself and my exes that made what we had so special. There are things that every man must do in order to make a relationship work and keep both partners happy. While our wants are important, the wants and needs of our partner should be just as significant.
Here are ten simple ways for how to demonstrate to your man that you admire him:
Feed him with love. There is nothing like a home cooked dinner that has been prepared with love. At the point when your man really knows your most loved feast, and takes the time to cook it, especially if it's from scratch! Oh my God. It proves to him that you know him, you care about him, listen to him, pay attention to his basic needs and furthermore provides for him a home cooked meal. On the off chance that you cook on a normal, than you have to take the additional mile to make it extraordinary. Prepare it in the nude, or desert on you, literally!
Nothing like a sexy pair of unmentionables. Break out that Andrew Christian BLOW! Web Thong (which I absolutely love wearing) or an incredible cut-out bodysuit that hugs your body just right. On the off chance that your man adores your body (which he should since he is with you) …then he will love this. To take a look in my underwear drawers (yes that is plural as I believe in putting on a show) you would think I was a stripper. The key to this is that you must have intercourse with him thereafter. Likewise, what you choose to wear should be something that also boasts your self-esteem and sex persona, you being unsure about your bedroom attire is not hot!
"How was your day?" Some men love to hear those words, but after a long day, those four words actually pisses me off. As a manager people are constantly calling my name and asking me questions, so the last thing I want to do is come home and immediately have the same thing happen at home. Allow your man personal time to process the day. Set him up for a relaxing evening watching the game, or whatever his niche is, and simply leave him alone. When he's ready to discuss the day, he will come to you, but don't bombard him as soon as he comes through the door.
A blowjob at 100 mph. Some good deepthroat alone would demonstrate your adoration, however if you love giving head as much as I do, this ought to happen enough that he wouldn't think excessively of it. Each gentleman needs to get head while in motion, it's just one of those things. Your man will love you for this because of your eagerness to do something he truly craves. Don't do this on a busy highway, or if your man is a horrible driver though. This is something best saved when you're on one of those long, winding roads with minimal traffic. Or if you're freaky enough, try it in a more busy, metropolitan area. I would!
Clean his place. This act of kindness may not mean much to some people, however for others, it's significant act of affection. In several of my previous relationships, I often had a key to my better half's homes and on occasion I would stop by unannounced while they were on their daily grind, clean up and leave. Now if your man is a neat freak himself, this won't suffice. Or, if he is living a double life and has some things to hide, this may not be a good way to show admiration towards your partner.
Stroke his ego, and then stroke his big ego. Set the inclination (decent supper would help), set it up by letting him know he needs some uninterrupted attention and be sure you schedule this during a time where there will be absolutely no interruptions. Provide for him a decent back rub with back rub oil. If it's flavored, that's even better as it will set the stage for the final act. Once you are done worshiping his body from head to toe, fuck him like it is the last time you will ever see him. The kind of sex where all of the sheets and pillows end up on the floor. The kind of love making that carries your bodies from the bedroom, to the kitchen, to the shower all while completely engaged in full on intercourse. The massage therapy will be extraordinary and highly appreciated, but the hot sex is the clear winner.
Do that little freaky thing he likes. He may want to trade places, explore the sensations of his hole or yours! Perhaps he wants to film the two of you having sex, bring in some freaky toys, role play or engage in some exhibition. Whatever it is, do it!
Pay for something. I'm a firm believer in carrying my own weight in a relationship. We're both men therefore we should share the responsibility of chivalry, but not everyone shares that ideal. Some men, particularly tops, love to spoil their bottoms and if you are a bottom who rarely or never pays for anything, this is your time. Treat him to supper, get the tab next time it's date night, maybe pay a bill of his. When a man pays for something it demonstrates that he is focused on truly building something substantial upon whatever he and his partner have. It will also let him know that your not out for his cash an that you appreciate everything he does for you.
Purchase him a personalized gift. Demonstrate to him that you truly hear him out and buy him something he needs and will love. In the event that he has a pastime (particularly on the off chance that you despise it) purchase him something that supports his infatuation. On the off chance that he is a shoe collector, get him a limited edition pair maybe customized with his name or something else to commemorate a meaningful moment in his life. Maybe your man is into clothing, get him an elusive shirt. Simply do something that shows exertion and profound thought. No jewelry, or underwear that you like, or anything that you will appreciate. This gift is all about him.
Satisfy his wet dreams. Each gentleman has some dream that verges on the edge of unlawful. In the event that he hasn't informed you of his desires, there's a great chance that it may involve having a threesome. Maybe he's always had a fantasy of seeing you in women's lingerie. The bottom line, do whatever you have to. Purchase that sex swing, be on the lookout for a third sexual partner, invite another couple to join you. Sex at his office? Sex on the rooftop? Whatever it may be…put the plan into action.
In case you haven't realized it by now, a considerable amount of these center around sex, the reason being that gentlemen like sex. If you are in a relationship, more than likely you are engaging in sex with your partner. Why not make it the best sex of his life? Make it special. Sex is always better with someone that you love.
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