There are some men who do not enjoy fellatio and then there are the majority of us, homosexual or heterosexual who can not get enough sloppy toppy.
Oral sex can provide a sense of stimulation that neither the vagina or the anal cavity can suffice. For some, it's an intimate act that can bring two people closer together. For others, it doesn't carry as much of an emotional connection; a way to enjoy sexual intimacy without having intercourse, which neither partner may be ready for.
Some men love receiving oral sex because it's an act of service . Just the physical act of kneeling before a man, indicates complete submission, giving him a sense of power and total domination. Others perceive it as an act of total admiration by the giver, complete acceptance of their manhood, a manhood that for some men is defined by their penis.
Ultimately oral sex is an exchange of power. The person receiving oral sex is being attended to, focused on, and showered with love or lust depending on the nature of the relationship. Those involved are exposing themselves, making themselves vulnerable to the touch of one another.
Whatever the reason, when oral sex is performed properly it is one of the greatest sexual pleasures one can experience. Here are a few techniques that are sure to help propel you to the head of your class.
NIAGARA FALLS
Gentlemen, you know how friction can be uncomfortable when you or your sexual partner has no used enough lube be fore penetration, right? Well the same goes for a penis.
Not every man likes a super sloppy blow job, where saliva starts to pool on the floor, but what's even worse than that is a blowjob that is too dry. Whether I'm giving a blowjob or receiving one, I’m huge into spit fetish, so spit strings, repetitive spitting, and drool basically dripping down from my mouth down the shaft and collecting around the base of the penis and drizzling down the balls. It creates a pool to use when things starts to get a little dry. Some may not like it, but from my experience, the wetter the better.
No matter the degree of saliva you choose to use, just make sure there’s some oral lubrication involved. If you are dehydrated or just can't seem to work up enough spit without interrupting the flow of the blow, deepthroating is one of the easiest ways to conjure up some spit.
You may think it's awkward but don’t worry about the weird noises kissing, gagging and sucking make. Those sounds just add stimulation to the male’s mental state and will keep that dick standing at attention. Especially if you're performing oral in a pitch black room, the inability for the receiver to be able to see the blowjob, but be able to hear it, will drive him insane!
MAKE LOVE TO THE PENIS
I know there are some men out there who don't necessarily enjoy giving head, not that I can relate because it is one of my favorite things to do. The power to make a man climax with my mouth alone is exhilarating!
If your aren't into giving oral, at least try to look like you’re having a good time and not like you're doing it out of obligation. It’s a huge turn off for any man to have someone sucking his dick like it is the last thing they'd like to be doing at that moment. I’m heavily turned on by pleasing my partner, and I expect for him to be vocal and show me that he's into it, which in turn increases my level of arousal and my transition into total slut mode.
I receive pleasure from doing everything in my power to see that my man is having a great time while I’m slobbing on that nob. Try to only think about the penis in your mouth and how it makes you and your partner feel, what turns you on and enjoy the fact that to some oral sex is still dirty. Indulge in the sensation of the penis filling up your mouth and throat as it becomes harder, longer and thicker. Allow your mouth to experience the many aspects of the penis.
Don’t be afraid to express your enjoyment verbally, as the vibrations from your voice can heighten the sensation of the blowjob.
NO TEETH ZONE
I’ve been on the receiving end of this and it is never fun. Sometimes a little grazing of the teeth on the shaft can be a good thing, but it's a technique that not everyone can achieve nor is it something that every man enjoys.
Most men would rather receive a teeth free blowjob, therefore open up those jaws boys!
I think this problem happens most often if the giver is in a rush, can’t find a good rhythm, or if they aren't in the right position. Every penis is not created equal, some curve to the left, some to the right, some downward while others stand straight up! If your teeth are grazing his penis, figure out what way his penis curves and position yourself in a way where the penis comfortably fits into your mouth and throat.
If that doesn't work, try folding your lips around your teeth. While the receiver may still be able to feel the pressure of your teeth, they will not be able to feel the sharp edges of your pearly whites that causes the greatest friction.
A good way to practice is by using a banana. Perform oral sex on it and try not to allow your teeth to touch or indent the delicate surface of the tasty fruit. Try deepthroating it. If it breaks in half, you sir still need more practice.
Just like penises, they come in all sizes so as your skills improve, increase the size of the banana, or purchase a nice set of realistic dildos.
DO IT WITH HANDS
There are moments when I like to do it without hands (usually when I first start off), and then there are times when hands are necessary to increase the sensation of the blowjob. I usually incorporate hand moves and mouth moves together, using the hands as an extension of my mouth. Don’t be afraid to grab firmly at the base, creating pressure with your index and thumb finger. While in this position go up and down the shaft with your mouth, while flexing your fingers to create a slow-pulsating vibration around the base.
You can also use your index finger and thumb to create a cockring. Wrap your thumb around the bottom of his balls, bringing them close to the shaft, while wrapping your index finger around the base of the shaft to create a ring. As you begin to suck his penis, make sure to go all the way down until your lips touch his balls. With your mouth still around the base of the shaft, loosen its grip, slowly extend your tongue outward and begin to lick his balls. Stay there for about 3-5 seconds before going back up to the head of his penis, and repeat.
Rotating the hand and changing pressure, speed, and length of the stroke is always good too. Mix it up, and read the responses! If he's huge you can wrap two hands around the penis, stacked, and still get your mouth on the head--move up and down rhythmically while twisting the hands in opposite directions, clockwise and counter-clockwise.
Make sure the grip is firm but don’t rip it off, and keep the spit going whether or not your mouth is on the head! If you feel your jaws need a break, grasp the penis with one hand, and place your lips directly above the "O" that your index and thumb fingers make. As you go down the shaft, your lips should constantly sit on top of your hand to create the illusion that you are taking in all of the receiver's manhood. Once you get used to that technique, move your head clockwise, while turning your hand counter-clockwise to create a more pleasurable thrill. Don't forget the spit!
Another technique is to cup his balls while sucking the shaft. Massage them, pull on them, but be sure to pay attention the his cues. If he's not into ball play, don't push the issue.
Hands shouldn't only be used around the genitalia, but incorporate his entire body. While licking the shaft or jerking the penis with one hand, caress his stomach, chest, hip area, and inner thighs as it, increases the overall area of sensation. If the guy is standing while you're kneeling, grab the back of their legs for a some face-fucking action then pull away allowing for the saliva to drip all over your body. Gasp for air, look up at him like a sex demon who can't seem to get enough. Slow it back down for a bit, bringing your hands back up to the base and stroke it again.
There’s nothing wrong with touching yourself simultaneously too, if you just cannot contain the enjoyment you’re receiving from giving pleasure!
DON'T FORGET HIS TREASURES
If a man has a forest down there, I don’t blame you if you’re not in a rush to shove the sack in your mouth… but if it's a little bit of ball hair, go for it! With all of the saliva you should be using, the balls will be so lubricated that you won't even notice.
However if they are shaven, you better turn into a squirrel and insane on those nuts. A lot of times this technique leads to the receiver allowing me to get a taste of that ass, so I always make a trip to the balls to see how much further I can go.
As stated before, incorporate your hands, whether it’s a light tease or a firm grasp or tug, give them some love and affection! There are men who are very sensitive when it comes to their jewels, so definitely communicate or pay attention to how they react. Proceed with caution. Don’t hurt their balls… unless they ask you to. Some guys like more pain than others.
INITIATE
Do you take the initiative? Do you tell him you want to blow his fucking brains out, or does every blow job you give begin with a request for one?
Don’t be scared to initiate! Sometimes you’re in the passenger seat on the way home from a long trip and you know you can help keep the driver alert and awake by offering a little sloppy toppy. Chances are, your good deeds will be rewarded. Initiating also shows confidence and lets the man know that you’re willing and comfortable with him.
DON'T RUSH THE FEELING
Never, ever rush a blowjob! You should be present with your mind solely on pleasing him orally. If he has to eat it before he can beat it, you have to suck it before he can fuck it. Foreplay is important!
Unless it is a morning blowjob before work, or one where his girlfriend, boyfriend, wife or husband will be arriving home soon, take your time. Avoid deliberately sighing because you’re just over it and want him to hurry up and cum. He’ll sense your attitude and it definitely won’t help him get off any faster. If you've been slurping non-stop for 10-15 minutes, take the penis out and slap it on your tongue. Rub it all over your face, tongue kiss the shaft, flicker your tongue up and down the penis, suck on the balls, lick his nipples while stroking him off. Do whatever you desire, just make sure that penis stays erect.
REPETITIVE=BORING
Majority of porn stars suck at sucking. You know the porn scenes in which the guy just bobs up and down, no saliva, no variation, no real technique an to make things worse, his mouth never seems to go past the base of the head. How boring!
Don’t be fucking boring, for crying out loud. Change up the hand use, the position in which you're giving head, or focus on another body part.
I like to challenge myself every time I give a blowjob. How quickly can I make him cum, and if he does cum quick, can I get it back up and make him bust again? I don’t mind having him force my head down as with practice my gag reflexes have become non-existent.
Move your lips. Make love to that dick with your mouth. Circle your tongue around the head. Suck only the head while stroking the shaft. Deepthroat his penis, pull it out quickly and lick from the base to the shaft, repeating this cycle. As you look at him, grab it firmly and spit on it.
Variation is a must, but don’t jump and skip around too quickly--use moderation. Always pay attention to how he reacts to certain acts, but not so much that the blowjob becomes technical. He should not feel as though you are thinking about your next move, as everything should be sensual and flow naturally.
If you know he has a favorite technique, like the two hands or ball-sucking and licking, mix it in, go back to some strong sucking for a while, alternate again, move on. If you get bored in one position, change it. Ass up and on your knees if he’s laying down, kneeling if he’s standing, give him a taste of that ass and 69, lay your head over the edge of the bed and let him go to work on that throat.
PRESENTATION IS EVERYTHING
I don't know what it is, but I cannot give a good blowjob fully clothed. For one, I like to get wet and nasty with it, so drenching my clothes in saliva or cum is not my idea of fun. Instead I opt for a sexy thong, brief or bodysuit to enhance the visual aspect of the blowjob. The excitement of the receiver being able to see what he can't have will keep that dick on rock.
GET LEWD WITH FOOD
Men love to watch a man swallow his meat, but why not add in a little food? Add in a little cream, chocolate syrup or yogurt. Smear it, drip it on and lick it off! Food is one of the most versatile sex toys with endless possibilities. Hey, you get to combine two of your favorite things, sex and food.
LINDA LOVELACE THAT DICK
I discovered that I could deepthroat by accident. I was giving this guy a blowjob in a position I had never performed one in before, and his penis literally slipped down my throat. Needless to say, he was shocked and so was I, but ever since then it has been a part of my oral technique.
In order to deepthroat the penis should be thoroughly lubricated. Position is also important; as you'll want to be in a position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back. This helps line up your throat with your mouth allowing the penis to slide in deep. Also take into account the curvature of the penis. If it curves to the left (and you are an amateur), than your body should be on the left of him. If it curves to the right, you should be on the right of him, and if it curves straight down, you should be in-between his legs.
At this point take a deep breath and slowly slide his shaft into your mouth. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as you have to until the urge to gag goes away. Eventually you'll be able to take in his penis deeper and deeper.
At this point you may feel a little resistance when the head of penis meets the back of your throat, give a little gentle push to get the penis fully down. If you still feel your gag reflex, pause for a moment, then, without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a little further, then pull your tongue back in your mouth, pulling the penis along with it.
A good way to rid yourself of the gag reflex can be found in something you do every day, brushing your teeth. To get your soft palate used to being touched or to get rid of the gag relex in total. Take your toothbrush and begin brushing your tongue, continue to brush your tongue further and further back until you feel the urge to gag. This is the starting point.
Every time you brush your teeth, spend about 10 seconds brushing that area. Gradually you will begin to notice that you gag less and less in that area, and as you do, move the toothbrush back further (1/4-1/2 inch).
The total process should only take a month.
SPILLING OVER THE BED
One of my favorite positions is to hang my head over the side of the bed, grab my partner's buttocks and take his penis into my mouth. With this technique your head should be off the bed as you give him oral sex upside down. Ultimately he is in control of the thrusting, but you can use your hands as a guide to speed him up or slow him down. Not only does this look sexy, but it also opens your throat wide so you can take in more of him without gagging. Your man will also love the fact that he can watch as his penis fills up your throat. And for you, it's a good way to get a hold of his plump ass cheeks.
HEAD SPIN
Instead of keeping your head still while moving up and down the shaft, try this! As you move down the shaft, turn your head to the right--the closer you get to the base of the shaft. As you begin to make your way back up to the head, turn your to the left. The move comfortable you become with doing this, the more it will resemble the motion of a hurricane or a cyclone.
ALTOIDS AND ORAL SEX
An Altoid is said to enhance oral sex because of the peppermint oil inside of the mint; therefore, it is important to use peppermint Altoids. The reason why people's experiences vary so greatly is due to the amount of Altoids having been eaten and the amount of oil already absorbed into the mouth. Most people recommend using three or four Altoids and eating them right before performing oral sex so the oil is not absorbed into your mouth.
So for those who have reported experiencing a burning sensation, a tingling-cooling blowjob or those men who experienced no difference, the giver was performing the technique improperly.
DON'T DO IT LIKE A PORN STAR
At least not a gay one. Women in porn do it correctly. They go balls deep and they don't care about their hair, nails or makeup. I can't tell you how many times I've watched a gay porn film and wanted to jump through the screen, push the amateur out of the way and show him how a real blowjob is supposed to be done.
DO IT ANYWHERE
One of the best things about oral sex is that it can be performed in a variety of places without being fully nude. Whether in a club, the movie theater, a restaurant, stairwell, dressing room, car or work, the danger of being caught is enough to send the receiver through the roof.
SAVOR THE FLAVOR
This is a tricky one. If your partner/boyfriend/fuck buddy whatever is tested, and you want to swallow all of that sweet nectar, open that mouth up wide and look at him while he shoots down that throat. Every man's cum taste different, some tastier than others. So a way to swallow him cum without having to taste it, is deepthroating it, just as he begins to nut. The cum will go right down your throat and the taste will be minimal if at all.
If he wants to cum on your body, and then lick it off, let him! A good blowjob is one that is finished to completion, and the ending is just as important as the beginning.
If you are not into tasting man jelly, and you cannot tell if he's about to cum, simply ask. Not everyone's toes curl, nor does every man's face clinch when he's about to climax.
Maybe you’re down for it to be on your face, but not in your mouth or not swallowed. That’s all fine and good! If you are strongly opposed to something, communication in advance isn’t the worst idea.. If a dude is about to bust on your face and you suddenly do a tuck and roll, you risk falling off the bed, that shit landing all over your sheets or him accidentally shooting you in the eye!
So be sure to communicate beforehand to avoid any awkward moments.
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